{"id":107,"date":"2014-01-31T22:31:04","date_gmt":"2014-01-31T22:31:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/laiasi.com\/cds\/?p=107"},"modified":"2020-11-10T18:30:51","modified_gmt":"2020-11-10T18:30:51","slug":"adoptia-o-alta-cale-de-a-deveni-parinte","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.centruldezvoltaresociala.ro\/en\/adoptia-o-alta-cale-de-a-deveni-parinte\/","title":{"rendered":"Adoption, another way to become a parent"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>V\u0103 invit\u0103m \u00een data de 20 noiembrie 2013, orele 12, sala 7.1, s\u0103 participa\u021bi la workshop-ul organizat \u00een cadrul Universit\u0103\u021bii Petre Andrei din Ia\u0219i, Facultatea de Economie.<br \/>\nInvita\u021bi vor fi: colega noastr\u0103 Ionela Bo\u0219oteanu \u0219i directorul agen\u021biei de turism Icar Tours, Florin B\u0103rh\u0103lescu.<\/p>\n<p>Cea de-a treia conferin\u021b\u0103 \u2013 Adop\u021bia unui copil \u2013 \u00eenc\u00e2ntare sau dez\u0103m\u0103gire &#8211; din seria celor organizate de Universitatea \u201dPetre Andrei\u201d din Ia\u0219i \u0219i Centrul de Dezvoltare Social\u0103 pe aceast\u0103 tem\u0103, a prezentat m\u0103rturiile a dou\u0103 mame care au trecut prin aceast\u0103 experien\u021b\u0103 unic\u0103. Este \u0219i cazul Anei Stafford, c\u0103s\u0103torit\u0103 \u00een Statele Unite ale Americii, \u0219i care a explicat c\u0103 nu a dorit s\u0103 adopte un copil de etnie rom\u0103 din motive de fertilitate, ci pur \u0219i simplu au vrut s\u0103 fac\u0103 acest pas cu mult timp \u00eenainte de c\u0103s\u0103torie. \u201dPovestea noastr\u0103 nu a \u00eenceput a\u0219a de frumos pe c\u00e2t este acum. Asistenul social ne-a prezentat-o pe Ema \u0219i ne-a aten\u021bionat c\u0103 are ceva probleme de s\u0103n\u0103tate. Era un bebelu\u0219 de opt luni care se comporta ca un nou n\u0103scut, st\u0103tea doar culcat\u0103 pe spate, nu \u0219tia s\u0103 str\u00e2ng\u0103 \u00een m\u00e2n\u0103, nu f\u0103cea nimic. La \u00eenceput am crezut c\u0103 are un handicap, nu \u0219tiam c\u0103 de fapt e \u00eent\u00e2rziat\u0103 dezvoltarea ei. Vroiam s\u0103 o iau \u00een bra\u021be dar ea m\u0103 respingea. \u00cen prima noapte, \u00een care am avut-o la noi, am mers de trei ori la urgen\u021be pentru c\u0103 voma \u0219i avea diaree. Doi ani de zile ne-au trebuit s\u0103 o putem pe picioare\u201d, a m\u0103rturisit Ana Sttaford. \u00cen ceea ce prive\u0219te momentul \u00een care i-a dezv\u0103luit feti\u021bei c\u0103 este abandonat\u0103, Ana a declarat c\u0103 \u201dde la bun \u00eenceput i-am spus c\u0103 ea a crescut \u00een burtic\u0103 la o alt\u0103 femeie. Nu am f\u0103cut un eveniment din a-i spune c\u0103 noi am \u00eenfiat-o. I-am dezv\u0103luit treptat, am vorbit mult despre adop\u021bie\u201d. De partea cealalt\u0103, Annie Bivlet a povestit c\u0103 nu a venit din Fran\u021ba cu g\u00e2ndul de a \u00eenfia un copil. \u201dNu m-am g\u00e2ndit nici o clip\u0103 c\u0103 voi adopta, mai ales c\u0103 nu sunt c\u0103s\u0103torit\u0103 \u0219i sunt de p\u0103rere c\u0103 un copil trebui s\u0103 aib\u0103 ambii p\u0103rin\u021bi al\u0103turi\u201d, a m\u0103rturisit aceasta. Totu\u0219i, recunoa\u0219te c\u0103 Maria, feti\u021ba pe care a \u00eenfiat-o, \u201da \u00eenceput s\u0103 \u00eent\u00e2mpine probleme de adaptare din momentul \u00een care a \u00eenceput s\u0103 mearg\u0103 la \u0219coal\u0103, \u00een Fran\u021ba, pentru c\u0103 a observat c\u0103 are un accent diferit fa\u021b\u0103 de ceilal\u021bi copii. \u00cen dese r\u00e2nduri, pentru c\u0103 nu i-am spus de la bun \u00eenceput nu eu sunt mama ei natural\u0103, se \u00eentreba de ce a mai n\u0103scut-o mama ei dac\u0103 a abandonat-o? De ce nu a avut grij\u0103 de ea?\u201d, a completat Annie Bivlet.<br \/>\nImportan\u021ba speciali\u0219tilor \u00een acest proces, \u00een momentul \u00een care un copil \u00ee\u0219i respinge p\u0103rin\u021bii adoptivi, a fost subliniat \u0219i de c\u0103tre Elles van der Beeck, reprezentanta Funda\u021biei Izvor. \u201dVoi, care sunte\u021bi speciali\u0219ti ave\u021bi ochii deschi\u0219i c\u0103tre p\u0103rin\u021bii care adopt\u0103 copiii abandondona\u021bi, pentru c\u0103 duc o munc\u0103 titanic\u0103. E foarte dureros s\u0103 te lup\u021bi, zi de zi, cu un copil care \u00een cas\u0103 e un tiran, iar afar\u0103 e dr\u0103gu\u021b cu toat\u0103 lumea\u201d.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.centruldezvoltaresociala.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/Adoptia.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" title=\"Adoptia\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/www.centruldezvoltaresociala.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/Adoptia-300x199.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"199\" \/><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/www.centruldezvoltaresociala.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/adoptia-2.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" title=\"adoptia 2\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/www.centruldezvoltaresociala.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/adoptia-2-292x300.jpg\" width=\"234\" height=\"240\" \/><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/www.centruldezvoltaresociala.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/Colocviu_international__thumb_medium300_0.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" title=\"Colocviu_international__thumb_medium300_0\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/www.centruldezvoltaresociala.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/Colocviu_international__thumb_medium300_0.jpg\" width=\"250\" height=\"123\" \/><\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>V\u0103 invit\u0103m \u00een data de 20 noiembrie 2013, orele 12, sala 7.1, s\u0103 participa\u021bi la workshop-ul organizat \u00een cadrul Universit\u0103\u021bii Petre Andrei din Ia\u0219i, Facultatea de Economie. Invita\u021bi vor fi: colega noastr\u0103 Ionela Bo\u0219oteanu \u0219i directorul agen\u021biei de turism Icar Tours, Florin B\u0103rh\u0103lescu. 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